Who Should You Name as Executor of Your Will?
Most people typically name a close family member or friend to serve as executor. A close family member of the deceased generally is more familiar with the assets of the decedent and knows her wishes. This choice is best for most individuals. However, sometimes naming a family member as executor can create resentment among other family members who may not have the best relationship with that person. For example, if you are in a second marriage and name your spouse as executor over your estate to the exclusion of your son or daughter from prior relationship, that situation may cause resentment. Of course, you could always name co-executors, but generally we advise you only name co-executors if you are confident that the co-executors will have a good working relationship. Otherwise, a neutral executor such as a bank, trust company, or a lawyer may be the best option. Be aware that if you do name a bank or lawyer, they will likely charge a fee for their services. Consequently, you should carefully consider who you want to be your executor, especially if there is a possibility of conflict in the family.